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The Response-Able Educator Newsletter 39

February 21, 2005

Welcome! This is a free newsletter on becoming a Response-Able parent raising Response-Able children.


Our mission is to inspire, encourage, and uplift the spirits of educators so they can in turn inspire, encourage, and uplift the spirits of their students.

1. Quote
2. Bumper Sticker
3. Spirit Whisperer Contemplation
4. Sign Language
5. Teacher Talk: Cushioning
6. It's a Fact
7. Article: "How Many Colonies Were There?"
8. The Teaching for Respect and Responsibility Seminar
9. Did You Know?

1. Quote

"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."

----George Bernard Shaw

2. Bumper Sticker

Spotted on a Chevy truck in Grand Rapids, MI

Leave no Bar Behind

3. Spirit Whisperer Contemplation

What if you thought of this student as wounded rather than wrong? Would it alter your perception? Would it alter your approach?

4. Sign Language

A. Observed on a high school bulletin board:

If you decide to do nothing, how do you tell when you are done?

B. Seen in a middle-school counseling office:

It's easier to keep up than to catch up.

C. Noticed in an English teacher's classroom:

Double negatives are a no no.

5. Teacher Talk: Cushioning

"You don't have to learn everything today. Can anyone tell me why?"

"When you take this quiz in a moment, would it be okay if you missed some? Why is that?"

The Teacher Talk examples above fall into a category of verbal responses called "cushioning." Cushioning is an attempt to reduce anxiety, decrease pressure, and free students up to relax into an activity so they can gain maximum benefits from it.

To put cushioning Teacher Talk into practice with your students, follow these two steps.

One: Make an assertion.

Two: Ask why.

"We don't always learn everything the first time." (assertion) "Why is that so?" (ask why)

Students might respond by telling you that it takes several repetitions before skills become natural, that they have to hear it two or three times before it sticks, or that sometimes they forget things and have to relearn a concept. This gives students permission to not have to learn everything this time, in this moment, forever and for always. By giving them verbal permission to learn at their own pace, by their own time clock, you cushion the pressure to learn NOW and actually increase the chance that learning occurs in this moment.

It would be okay if you had to read this twice to understand it, wouldn't it? How come?

(Teacher Talk: What It Really Means, by Chick Moorman and Nancy Weber, is available from Personal Power Press at 1-877-360-1277 or

6. It’s a Fact

Q. What do you call a person who speaks three languages?

A. Trilingual

Q. What do you call a person who speaks two languages?

A. Bilingual

Q. What do you call a person who speaks one language?

A. An American

Fact: Fewer than 1 in 10 students at U.S. colleges major in foreign languages.

Fact: Most of those language majors choose French, German, Italian, or Spanish.

Fact: Only 9% learn Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Russian, or Indonesian--languages that are spoken by a majority of the planet's people.

Fact: In August 2001--one month before the September 11th terrorist attack against the United States--the National Foreign Language Center at the University of Maryland noted that the country faced "a critical shortage of linguistically competent professionals across federal agencies and departments responsible for national security."

Source: Educational Leadership/January 2005

Thomas Haller and Chick Moorman are available to keynote your conference or present one of their highly acclaimed full-day seminars for your building or district staff.

Their most popular seminars are:

Transforming Aggression in Children
Celebrate the Spirit Whisperers
Teaching for Respect and Responsibility
Brain Functioning Behavior in Children
Achievement Motivation and Behavior Management

Contact them at or to begin the discussion of possible dates and topics.

7. Article: “How Many Colonies Were There?”


By Chick Moorman

I arrived early, as I usually do, for my eighth-grade substitute teaching assignment. I like to look over the lesson plans and make sure I understand them before the students begin showing up. That way, if I have any questions or concerns, I can check with another teacher to help me decipher the expectations.

No problems understanding the lesson plans this day. The U.S. history students I was to meet with first were expected to study for a test on American colonies by designing possible test questions and having classmates answer them.

When the class had been assembled and roll had been taken, I gave the assignment. Students went immediately to work and for the next ten minutes silently designed appropriate test questions. At the end of that time, I asked to hear some of the questions they had created. I heard:

How many colonies were there?
What was the first colony?
Which colony did the Pilgrims found?
What year was the Virginia colony founded?
What colony did James Olglethorp lead?

Every question created by the students was one that required a single right answer. Each was fact-oriented. None asked for opinion. None required thinking. All demanded a simple regurgitation of a fact. All relied only on students' ability to memorize.

"For the next ten minutes," I challenged the eighth graders, "come up with a question that asks for higher-level thinking."

"What is that?" one of the students wondered aloud.

"It's a question that asks for opinion, evaluation, or judgment," I rattled off quickly, trying to think of a simple definition of higher-order questions.

"We don't have to do that," I was informed by one of the students. "We only have to do questions like the ones that will be on the test."

"You don't have any questions on your test that ask your opinion?" I enquired.

"Nope," came the response from several students simultaneously. "Mr. Johnston will use some of our questions on the test," one student informed me. "And he likes these kinds of questions."

Mr. Johnston is going to be in for a surprise, I thought to myself, being careful not to say aloud what I was thinking privately.

"Well, let's play with this for the rest of the hour," I urged. "I'll suggest a certain type of question and you write one that fits the criteria I suggest."

"Write a question that begins with the words, 'What is your opinion about . . .?'" I challenged. After some initial resistance and grumbling, the students complied.

Questions the students designed included:

What is your opinion about why Plymouth was founded?
What is your opinion about the rules people had for living in the Massachusetts colony?
What is your opinion about the easiest colony to grow up in?

"Now give me a possible test question that begins with 'What factors led to . . .?'" I said. Again I received questions that called for thinking and real understanding. In the remaining class time, I asked students to design questions that:

1. Rank the colonies from best to worst on ______.
2. Sum up what you know about __________ in two sentences.
3. Predict what would have happened ____________if_____________.
4. Write a question that uses the words "same" or "different" that asks the person answering to compare or contrast something about the colonies.
5. What changes would you have made to_____________? Why?
6. Evaluate how_________________.
7. What in your own life is like ______________ from ______________.

By the time the class period ended, the eighth-graders were into the flow of asking questions that demanded more than a single right answer. The activity was clearly new for them, and they seemed to be enjoying the novelty and the challenge.

I'm not sure what Mr. Johnston thought of the questions we came up with that day. I don't know if he ever used any of them. But I do know that by asking the students to create questions that require others to think, they were forced to think themselves.

Chick Moorman is the author of Spirit Whisperers: Teachers Who Nourish a Child's Spirit, available through Personal Power Press (toll-free 1-877-360-1477) and

8 . The Teaching for Respect and Responsibility Seminar

Announcing public seminars in Teaching For Respect and Responsibility:

PHOENIX, AZ…………..…..February, 22, 2005

LANSING, MI……………..…March 2, 2005

OKLAHOMA CITY, OK….….March 7, 2005

Send an email request today to to receive your detailed brochure about this powerful and practical seminar presented by Chick Moorman. Be sure to include your mailing address.

9. Did you know?

A. It's easier to apologize than to get permission.

B. We never sell, trade, or distribute your email address for any reason, ever.

C. Thanks to the No Child Left Behind Act, private companies are mining the testing field and rolling in the money. Between 2002 and 2008, states are expected to spend between $1.9 billion and $5.3 billion on NCBL-mandated tests. We wonder . . . is anyone holding the testing companies accountable? Is anyone designing a test for them?

D. If you book either of us, Thomas Haller or Chick Moorman, for a full-day seminar with your teaching staff, we will stay and do a parent program in the evening at no additional charge.

E. March 20th is International Parenting Commitment Day. Check to see suggestions for International Parenting Commitment Day rituals, celebrations, and other ideas.

F. In Milwaukee, Wisconsin, a suburban high-school student and his father have filed a lawsuit seeking to bar homework over the summer. The family believes that if teachers want to assign homework during the summer, it should be voluntary and not factored into the student's grades without the student's consent.

G. The 10 Commitments: Parenting with Purpose has gone back to press. The first printing is nearly sold out, and demand for this valuable book continues to grow rapidly.

H. We are looking for people who are committed to helping parents raise responsible, caring, confident children. We are offering a West Coast facilitator training in the Parent Talk System in Santa Barbara, CA, April 7-9. Send for details at Include your mailing address.

I. You can reprint any of our articles without permission as long as you publish it in its entirety and keep the tagline that informs readers of how to contact us. Many schools have called or emailed to request permission to use our "Explaining World Tragedy to Children" article. View it at or

J. For ideas on youth-led efforts and resources for parents and teachers to talk to young people about the tsunami disaster, visit

To find out more about books, tapes, and materials by Chick Moorman and Thomas Haller, contact them at (toll-free) 877-360-1477 or on the Web at or

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